Flower Gifting Etiquette
Comments debate the sincerity and value of giving flowers as gifts, especially via delivery services or subscriptions for occasions like Mother's Day, questioning if it feels personal or just transactional.
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May I suggest flowers every week?
I suggest not buying flowers and a card daily.
That's all true. I'm just saying if they knew that you needed this app to get them flowers, then a.) they would likely feel a bit disappointed vs. if it was all you, and b.) that is not unreasonable.
hmmm, how convenient? sorry honey, i absolutely totally 100% would have bought you flowers, but you know cat. not that i forgot or anything. we swears it.
Flowers arenβt good enough for you?
It's gauche to send one's mom flowers once a year, because this implies one only thinks of her once a year. The answer is, of course, to pay for a service that sends her flowers once a month.
Or send flowers, or even old school telegram... ?
I am told that giving flowers on mother's day is rather gauche since it highlights the fact you don't think of your mother the other 364(5) days a year. I found a service that let me pay once and schedule a delivery a month for a year solved this particular problem.
Not sure if we (guys) like flowers as much as girls. But honestly, I think it'd be a very nice detail.I don't see it as paying for caring, the times I've giving flowers to SO is when the way flowers look makes me think of them. Yeah technically you're paying for a good... But I'd steal it too.
The act itself is also shallow, flowers are meant more of a symbolic gift; I give my wife flowers maybe to express love but if I just gave some random person flowers on the street without any further explanation then I have simply given that person a dead plant. If the guy gave the lady something of actual value or that served a need, or even just made statement as to the meaning of the flowers it could have changed the dynamic. Further it is customary to ask someone (especially someone you do