Flower Gifting Etiquette

Comments debate the sincerity and value of giving flowers as gifts, especially via delivery services or subscriptions for occasions like Mother's Day, questioning if it feels personal or just transactional.

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Sample Comments

wglb β€’ Jun 3, 2009 β€’ View on HN

May I suggest flowers every week?

eggnet β€’ Feb 14, 2009 β€’ View on HN

I suggest not buying flowers and a card daily.

Neynt β€’ May 13, 2024 β€’ View on HN

That's all true. I'm just saying if they knew that you needed this app to get them flowers, then a.) they would likely feel a bit disappointed vs. if it was all you, and b.) that is not unreasonable.

dylan604 β€’ Aug 26, 2023 β€’ View on HN

hmmm, how convenient? sorry honey, i absolutely totally 100% would have bought you flowers, but you know cat. not that i forgot or anything. we swears it.

mrfusion β€’ Jul 27, 2021 β€’ View on HN

Flowers aren’t good enough for you?

rendall β€’ Sep 4, 2021 β€’ View on HN

It's gauche to send one's mom flowers once a year, because this implies one only thinks of her once a year. The answer is, of course, to pay for a service that sends her flowers once a month.

sjg007 β€’ Dec 2, 2015 β€’ View on HN

Or send flowers, or even old school telegram... ?

etothepii β€’ Sep 4, 2021 β€’ View on HN

I am told that giving flowers on mother's day is rather gauche since it highlights the fact you don't think of your mother the other 364(5) days a year. I found a service that let me pay once and schedule a delivery a month for a year solved this particular problem.

igorgue β€’ Aug 16, 2013 β€’ View on HN

Not sure if we (guys) like flowers as much as girls. But honestly, I think it'd be a very nice detail.I don't see it as paying for caring, the times I've giving flowers to SO is when the way flowers look makes me think of them. Yeah technically you're paying for a good... But I'd steal it too.

jimmyjazz14 β€’ Jul 14, 2022 β€’ View on HN

The act itself is also shallow, flowers are meant more of a symbolic gift; I give my wife flowers maybe to express love but if I just gave some random person flowers on the street without any further explanation then I have simply given that person a dead plant. If the guy gave the lady something of actual value or that served a need, or even just made statement as to the meaning of the flowers it could have changed the dynamic. Further it is customary to ask someone (especially someone you do