Transactional Relationships Debate

Commenters debate whether personal relationships, particularly romantic ones, must provide utility or productivity to be worthwhile, or if they hold intrinsic value beyond transactional benefits.

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bazhova β€’ Nov 20, 2021 β€’ View on HN

Relationships exist outside of productivity and usefulness. Don't ruin it plz.

9rx β€’ Apr 14, 2025 β€’ View on HN

Relationships don't need to be "true" to be useful.

glitchc β€’ Oct 1, 2022 β€’ View on HN

Sounds like a tough relationship. You’re more than a meal ticket, you know.

jqpabc123 β€’ Mar 15, 2022 β€’ View on HN

Unfortunately, a "relationship" is not just about "how you see it".

djmips β€’ Oct 5, 2023 β€’ View on HN

'no relationship' is too strong.

sapientiae3 β€’ Feb 15, 2023 β€’ View on HN

Not just individuals, but relationships too.

hisnameisjimmy β€’ May 12, 2022 β€’ View on HN

This is a sad way to frame the world. Not all relationships are transactional in nature.

woleium β€’ May 6, 2021 β€’ View on HN

Not all relationships have to be transactional, in fact the best ones are not :)

seanw444 β€’ Dec 15, 2022 β€’ View on HN

Sounds like the problem is relying on the internet for your relationships/happiness.

throwawaymanbot β€’ Dec 13, 2018 β€’ View on HN

They dont care about you... They are in a relationship and need to provide usefulness.