Question-Answering Etiquette

Debates on whether to directly answer questions or respond with counter-questions, frustrations with indirect or dismissive responses, and the value of asking questions over spouting answers in online discussions.

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whateveracct Jan 29, 2021 View on HN

i think it's an appeal to not spouting answers when you should be asking questions

anigbrowl Dec 28, 2022 View on HN

Could you answer the question you were asked instead of haranguing the person who asked it?

anon4 Dec 19, 2014 View on HN

Questions don't have to be polite, well-formed, or sensible. That is required of answers.

scotty79 Jan 8, 2014 View on HN

Apparently nowadays it's being a jerk to ask people questions you should have guessed they have no way to answer productively.

contravariant Jan 31, 2020 View on HN

Don't be so dismissive of people asking questions you want them to know the answer to.

whateveracct Dec 28, 2020 View on HN

some people spout answers when they should be asking questions

LanceH Nov 6, 2020 View on HN

It's not limited to marketing. Try asking a question along the lines of, "why does x do this?" The answer is frequently, "you shouldn't do x, you should do y." Clearly the question is asking for an explanation, but people will double down on how wrong the questioner is for even asking.

balls187 Sep 19, 2024 View on HN

"Well, tell me why you think that is?" Is a good way to respond to questions.

qwertytyyuu Nov 13, 2025 View on HN

repeating what is being asked is fine i think, sometimes is thinks you want something different to what you actually want. what is annoying is "that's and incredibly insightul question that delves into a fundamental..." type responses at the start.

heretohelp Jul 11, 2012 View on HN

I just ask questions, you shouldn't assume any real volitional intent on my part.