Politeness and Courtesy Debate

Cluster centers on debates about the importance of politeness, basic courtesy, and manners in social interactions, including whether they should be expected or enforced, and cultural variations in what's considered rude.

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Sample Comments

themitigating • Mar 25, 2023 • View on HN

Do people realize that it's analogous to being polite?

Qantourisc • Sep 26, 2016 • View on HN

It's rude to expect people to act a certain way as well.

dpcan • Feb 28, 2011 • View on HN

How about explaining either way what you don't find polite or right?

Helianthus • Mar 27, 2013 • View on HN

Not anything wrong with being polite. Plenty wrong with requiring people to be polite.

dageshi • Mar 28, 2017 • View on HN

Yes politeness goes a long way in such situations.

hef19898 • Mar 22, 2022 • View on HN

Some general politeness and respect? Apparently too much to ask these days...

freejazz • Mar 9, 2020 • View on HN

Yeah... it's called being polite and sociable

auggierose • Oct 13, 2016 • View on HN

There's politeness, and then there is that.

neom • Jan 22, 2024 • View on HN

Unfortunately my friend, basic politeness is a lot to ask for in this day and age.

chc • Sep 13, 2017 • View on HN

It's not your speech being dictated, per se; it's about being polite. Like, there's nothing stopping me from hurling fanciful insults at everybody I meet, but I also wouldn't blame other people for considering me wrong to do so.