Politeness and Courtesy Debate

Cluster centers on debates about the importance of politeness, basic courtesy, and manners in social interactions, including whether they should be expected or enforced, and cultural variations in what's considered rude.

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Sample Comments

themitigating Mar 25, 2023 View on HN

Do people realize that it's analogous to being polite?

Qantourisc Sep 26, 2016 View on HN

It's rude to expect people to act a certain way as well.

dpcan Feb 28, 2011 View on HN

How about explaining either way what you don't find polite or right?

Helianthus Mar 27, 2013 View on HN

Not anything wrong with being polite. Plenty wrong with requiring people to be polite.

dageshi Mar 28, 2017 View on HN

Yes politeness goes a long way in such situations.

hef19898 Mar 22, 2022 View on HN

Some general politeness and respect? Apparently too much to ask these days...

freejazz Mar 9, 2020 View on HN

Yeah... it's called being polite and sociable

auggierose Oct 13, 2016 View on HN

There's politeness, and then there is that.

neom Jan 22, 2024 View on HN

Unfortunately my friend, basic politeness is a lot to ask for in this day and age.

chc Sep 13, 2017 View on HN

It's not your speech being dictated, per se; it's about being polite. Like, there's nothing stopping me from hurling fanciful insults at everybody I meet, but I also wouldn't blame other people for considering me wrong to do so.