Small Talk Aversion

The cluster centers on debates about disliking small talk and superficial chit-chat, preferring genuine conversations about personal interests, ideas, activities, and meaningful topics over weather, weekends, or trivial matters.

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P.S IMO e.g talk conversations conversation talking small cellphone conversational imaginary talk people topics

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sAbakumoff β€’ May 27, 2019 β€’ View on HN

more interested question is why do you need small talk at all?

alexk7 β€’ Jan 18, 2022 β€’ View on HN

This is ignoring the fact that there are people who actually enjoy exchanging pleasantries. Make a list with 2 columns: 1) people that enjoy small talk 2) people that dislike small talk. Act accordingly.

frowaway001 β€’ Oct 8, 2014 β€’ View on HN

Some people are worth talking to, others are not.

mwilliaams β€’ Apr 18, 2023 β€’ View on HN

I enjoy talking to people about things that aren’t sports, celebrities, or the latest popular show to binge

exolymph β€’ Aug 13, 2021 β€’ View on HN

Not clear on how this is distinct from simply having a fun conversation.

ilyt β€’ Nov 27, 2022 β€’ View on HN

The other interactions like talking about your weekend aren't exacty something to comment on.Also why it is a problem ?

alvarosm β€’ Aug 9, 2016 β€’ View on HN

It's not about what you want it's about what others may like to hear from you. And if you're doing something all day long and you can't talk about it, what do you talk about? you'll be like a foreign object to others

HKH2 β€’ Nov 4, 2021 β€’ View on HN

Your description above is very similar to how I would describe things, yet I have no problem with small talk.

maximzavadskiy β€’ Mar 19, 2020 β€’ View on HN

Heard of that! How is your experience with the conversations? What are the common topics you talk about?

em-bee β€’ Oct 19, 2024 β€’ View on HN

maybe because some of us are not comfortable with small talk ;-)