Dinner Party Etiquette

The cluster focuses on social norms and debates around hosting dinner parties, group dining expectations like sharing food, handling allergies or picky eaters, and the validity of dinner party analogies for other concepts.

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Sample Comments

codeulike β€’ Sep 10, 2013 β€’ View on HN

Its a bit like saying why would anyone want to host a huge dinner party.

vmception β€’ Aug 30, 2020 β€’ View on HN

I used to do dinner parties like that at restaurants: remove choice from my friends and tell the server a list of things we'll get, and then we have a bunch of things on the table family style.Don't worry about what can go wrong and live a little. It is an amazing experience for many.

nunez β€’ Jan 5, 2023 β€’ View on HN

It's generally perceived as awkward to not eat when you're with others in a place that's specifically for eating

synicalx β€’ Jun 21, 2022 β€’ View on HN

In this analogy; it's JUST a restaurant it's not that important that you be there with your friends and family. There's plenty of other ways you can see and interact with them, the restaurant isn't important or necessary.

AlexTWithBeard β€’ Jul 13, 2020 β€’ View on HN

Even when this someone is not from your dinner party?

joshiee β€’ Apr 26, 2023 β€’ View on HN

Maybe the idea is like how you can't go to a buffet and share food with someone who hasn't paid the entry fee

andreshb β€’ Jun 4, 2022 β€’ View on HN

More the reason to not feed your guests

darth_avocado β€’ May 29, 2025 β€’ View on HN

You can’t eat out alone everywhere

seanmccann β€’ May 4, 2012 β€’ View on HN

I love the concept of this. I travel a lot and sometimes find it difficult to arrange a dinner with old friends on short notice. I'd especially like it when I get hungry late at night but don't want to bother anybody specific.

Saris β€’ Jan 12, 2025 β€’ View on HN

I tip for stuff like sit down dining where someone is coming out and bringing me food.