Sympathy for Personal Hardship

Commenters offer empathy, apologies, and encouragement to someone sharing a painful personal experience or crisis, while urging kindness and understanding in the discussion. The focus is on supporting the original poster through their difficulties rather than debating the incident itself.

📉 Falling 0.4x Other
3,506
Comments
20
Years Active
5
Top Authors
#205
Topic ID

Activity Over Time

2007
7
2008
20
2009
51
2010
56
2011
120
2012
130
2013
237
2014
165
2015
124
2016
171
2017
198
2018
212
2019
200
2020
279
2021
324
2022
376
2023
305
2024
234
2025
276
2026
21

Keywords

BPD OP HN ATM sorry thank sharing sorry hear thank sharing comments empathy hear experience feel

Sample Comments

iovrthoughtthis May 28, 2020 View on HN

I'm sorry. This does feel like a pretty shitty situation. I hope all of this attention helps connect you with some people you go on to do great things with!

GuiA Mar 8, 2017 View on HN

Thanks for making the effort to share painful personal things :)

rubicon33 Feb 2, 2021 View on HN

I'm really sorry to hear that you deal with that. A reminder for the rest of us to remember how lucky we are.

phpnode Jul 31, 2021 View on HN

I think the poster is having some personal difficulties in their life, let's be kind.

xwowsersx Nov 20, 2022 View on HN

I applaud you. I absolutely did not intend to rub it in or make you feel worse than you might already (which it sounds like you have little reason to). I admire you sharing your experience and being honest about it without beating yourself up too much. The world is made better by little decisions for the good like the ones you made. Thank you.

grayclhn May 28, 2015 View on HN

Don't be too harsh, you don't know what the commenter's going through either. :)

in_a_hole Nov 21, 2024 View on HN

I'm sorry to hear that happened to someone close to you, thank you for sharing.

yard2010 Sep 20, 2025 View on HN

No need to be snarky, dude is going through a rough time, can use some empathy

booboofixer Feb 13, 2022 View on HN

I have nothing to add to this so I'm sorry for commenting if i shouldn't. But thank you for writing this because i felt a little insane looking at the world around me and coming to some of the same conclusions as you have arrived at, that result from treating people a certain way. I'm not sure why most other people don't seem to get this.

ViktorRay Apr 14, 2025 View on HN

When someone’s life gets turned upside down, feeling sick to the stomach is a normal reaction.Also keep in mind that the person who wrote this blog might be here on hacker news reading comments.If you met this person in real life would you say those things to him? If the answer is no then why post those things here?