Comment Tone Disputes

Users discuss, apologize for, defend against, or critique the perceived tone of comments, such as snark, condescension, or confrontation, often clarifying that no offense was intended.

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FTW comment tone snark condescending snarky intended sorry context trying intent

Sample Comments

djmips • Dec 24, 2025 • View on HN

I understand what you're saying and certainly I've come up against that myself. I didn't intend my comment to be super pejorative.

swombat • Jun 8, 2009 • View on HN

You may well be right. I didn't mean to be offensive, nor did I mean to be witty. It was just an observation.

kgwxd • Jul 24, 2020 • View on HN

I get the impression that my comment came across as an insult. If so, that was not my intent.

tmp_anon_22 • Dec 21, 2021 • View on HN

My comment was more condescending then I intended, I appreciate the additional context.

justwalt • Jan 29, 2019 • View on HN

Not sure his comment deserved a response like that.

Railsify • Sep 19, 2019 • View on HN

It's not meant as a put down. I apologize if it felt like that.

dang • Jun 29, 2016 • View on HN

That comment was snarky, dismissive, and inaccurate, but please don't respond with snark of your own.

lawn • Sep 5, 2024 • View on HN

There's no aggression meant in my comment, just an attempt to give some feedback in how you might be perceived when you respond in a certain way.

karencarits • Dec 12, 2024 • View on HN

Thank you for clarifying! I've edited my comment to - hopefully - sound less confrontational

projektfu • Feb 27, 2022 • View on HN

My apologies. Your comment had an air of superiority in it as I read it but perhaps it was not your intent.