Shame vs Guilt Debate

The cluster focuses on discussions about the distinctions between shame and guilt, their roles as motivators or demotivators in moral judgments, personal experiences, and social behaviors, often in response to controversial opinions or actions.

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badrabbit β€’ Aug 4, 2023 β€’ View on HN

I didn't say I don't like those people, I said i believe they feel guilt yet avoid shame by using flawed reasoning and self deception. Those were just examples i thought would help sell my point to the HN crowd.

LordIllidan β€’ Mar 23, 2014 β€’ View on HN

You're assuming that we feel guilty about it!

robin_reala β€’ Jul 17, 2025 β€’ View on HN

Explain why you think it’s shameful?

love2read β€’ Aug 27, 2025 β€’ View on HN

It seems weird to shame someone for talking about their own experience?

duncan_bayne β€’ Jul 31, 2014 β€’ View on HN

"I feel ashamed to be human sometimes."Don't be. Feel proud to be one of the people who understands that this is wrong, & why.

Fifer82 β€’ Feb 11, 2017 β€’ View on HN

You have to care to be ashamed.

andonisus β€’ Jan 24, 2019 β€’ View on HN

Shame for you telling other people how they should feel.

redcobra762 β€’ Jan 11, 2024 β€’ View on HN

Oh yeah, I'm a terrible person, no doubt about that. Doesn't change the argument one bit, however.(See how your attempt at shame failed? That's why shame is not a useful tool.)

andreyf β€’ Feb 7, 2018 β€’ View on HN

Where is the shame coming from?

tehwebguy β€’ Mar 15, 2022 β€’ View on HN

The shame you feel for your opinion is a good start